What Is Self-Care? Nurturing Your Well-Being Every Day

Self-care goes beyond spa days or bubble baths—it’s an intentional, holistic practice aimed at maintaining your physical, emotional, and social health. Here are a few things you should know and do to get you through the “summer blues."

Understanding Self-Care

Self-care goes beyond spa days or bubble baths—it’s an intentional, holistic practice aimed at maintaining your physical, emotional, and social health. In today’s fast-paced world, 62% of adults report skipping self-care at least three days a week, often citing “lack of time” or “guilt”. Left unchecked, this can lead to burnout, decreased immunity, and impaired cognitive function. So as summer is in full swing and vacations, family event, holidays and social activities can quickly lead to feeling of burnout or anxiety, here are a few things you should know and do to get you through the “summer blues”…

Quick Facts About Self-Care

  • Time Investment: Just 5–10 minutes of focused self-care daily can lower cortisol levels by up to 25%.
  • Mood Boost: Micro-breaks (60 seconds of stretching or deep breathing) improve emotional regulation by 15%.
  • Sleep Quality: A nightly “digital curfew” one hour before bed increases deep-sleep duration by 10–20 minutes.

Common Barriers & How to Overcome Them

“I don’t have time.” – Integrate self-care into existing routines—stretch while reheating your coffee, or practice mindful breathing during bathroom breaks. “I feel guilty.” – Reframe self-care as essential maintenance, not indulgence. Imagine your brain and body as tools—regular upkeep prevents costly breakdowns. “I don’t know where to start.” – Begin with the Self-Care Triad (Restore, Move, Connect)—pick one micro-habit in each category.

The Self-Care Triad: Three Intentional Activities to Focus on You

Restore

  • Micro-breaks: Every hour, pause for 60 seconds—to stretch, breathe deeply, or step outside.
  • Digital Detox: One hour before bedtime, silence notifications and switch to a “night-friendly” activity (reading, journaling, gentle yoga).

Move

  • Mini Workouts: Aim for 3×5-minute movement breaks—desk yoga poses, calf raises, or a brisk hallway walk.
  • Weekend Reset: Block 30–45 minutes for moderate exercise (cycling, gardening, or a trail hike) to reset your energy stores.

Connect

  • Intentional Check-Ins: Schedule a 5-minute mid-day call or text “How’s it going?” to a friend or family member.
  • Community Engagement: Join a weekly group—virtual or in-person: book clubs, walking groups, or volunteer projects.

Other Evidence-Based Coping Techniques

  • Journaling: Spend 5 minutes each morning listing three things you’re grateful for and one intention for the day—this practice reduces stress by 20% over four weeks.
  • Mindful Reminders: Use calendar alerts labeled “Breathe” every two hours—brief mindfulness breaks improve concentration by 15%.
  • Mood Toolkit: Assemble a small kit (favorite tea bag, soothing playlist link, fidget toy) in your workspace or bedside drawer for quick mood resets.

Having a Conversation with a Clinician

A therapist can collaborate with you to build a custom self-care blueprint that complements any medical or psychiatric treatment. They will monitor progress through standardized measurement tools and adjust your self-care “prescription” as your needs evolve. “Schedule self-care like a meeting—add it to your calendar with a reminder. Treat it with the same importance as a doctor’s appointment,” advises MMHC’s Melissa Conway, LICSW.

Connect with Minnesota Mental Health Clinics

We offer individual, couples, and group therapy—in-person and virtual—across 11 Twin Cities locations. Our team will help you develop and sustain a self-care plan that fits your lifestyle. If feelings of burnout or hopelessness persist for more than two weeks, call or text 988 for immediate support.
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